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The 3 Missed Moments in Retail Banking

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In today’s fiercely competitive world, retail banks like Citibank, Wells Fargo, and PNC Bank pour billions into building brands that exude trust. They invest heavily in state-of-the-art technology and beautifully designed branches, all to enhance the customer experience. Yet, despite these efforts, many banks overlook an essential factor in creating lasting customer loyalty – the power of investing in moments that truly matter to their clients. Those missed moments can heavily affect the emotional connection between the brand and the customer. 

The Key to Loyalty: Capturing Defining Moments

A banking relationship often lasts decades. Think of all the pivotal moments in that time: buying a home, starting a new job, planning a wedding, saving for retirement. Many of these defining moments involve the bank, and yet banks frequently miss the chance to celebrate them.

Imagine how much stronger customer loyalty could be if banks learned to think in moments and embraced opportunities to surprise and delight their customers. As Adam Posner defines it, turning those milestones into Moments of Magic is to bring the feeling of the unexpected. It is to investing in creative interactions that leaves a lasting positive impression, bringing warmth to your customers’ life. Whether through thoughtful gestures, personalised communication, or simple, delightful surprises, these moments strengthen the emotional connection and reinforce loyalty.

A defined structure (planned spontaneity) of recognition, rewards and benefits delivered as one or a series of Moments of Magic (MoMs) to your members/customers without any expectation from them (surprise is critical) to generate the feeling of maximum joy and delight. The outcomes are social sharing, referrals, revenue and advocacy, plus a deeper emotional connection to your brand.

Three Types of Moments Banks Should Focus On

Research shows that there are three categories of moments that shape customer relationships: transitions, milestones, and pits. By recognising these, banks can create lasting impressions and turn ordinary moments into extraordinary experiences.

  1. Transitions: Life’s big changes, such as buying a home, starting a new job, or opening a first account, are major transitions. Banks are often involved in these moments, but how often do they turn these interactions into something memorable?
    For instance, instead of sending a new mortgage holder their first payment statement, imagine receiving a thoughtful housewarming gift. A simple gesture, but one that surprises and delights. Or when a young person opens their first account, the teller could round up their small savings deposit to a round number, creating a memorable moment that fosters customer loyalty from day one.
  2. Milestones: Just like fitness apps such as Fitbit celebrate personal achievements (like 1 million steps), banks could easily recognise financial milestones
    Picture this: You reach a savings goal of $10,000, or you’ve successfully built an emergency fund. A congratulatory message from your bank or a surprise reward could transform it into a memorable moment.  It’s these unexpected moments that deepen loyalty and make customers feel truly valued.
  3. Pits: Life’s challenges, such as losing a job, getting divorced, or handling a parent’s affairs after their passing, are emotionally charged moments. Banks could do more to offer support in these difficult times. Possibilities such as offering a “mortgage holiday” or payment pause can ease the financial strain. By offering understanding and personalised assistance during these low points, banks show real empathy. These moments of compassion can turn a routine banking relationship into a loyal, lasting connection.

Listen to Anton Van Borm (Digital Customer Journey Expert at ING Belgium) in the video below. The expert explains how the bank sees these moments as a way to build emotional loyalty with customers.

How Thinking in Moments Translates to Customer Loyalty

Banks often miss out on these defining moments. By ignoring missed moments during significant transitions, milestones, or pits, they fail to fully engage with customers and build an emotional connection. The result is a relationship where one party is unaware of the most important moments in the other’s life. 

But this concept doesn’t just apply to banks. At Stampix, we believe that every business can leverage these powerful moments to foster deeper customer relationships. By creating tangible, memorable experiences that bring joy, you can transform everyday interactions into moments that matter – building long-lasting customer loyalty.

At the end of the day, it’s not just about the product or service you offer; it’s about how you make your customers feel during their most defining moments. Loyalty is built not on transactions, but on emotional connections that make your customers feel valued and appreciated.

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